I guess my perspective comes from getting into the show late, after Angel left for LA. I didn't start watching until Season 4 (although I'm playing catch-up now, and I've read all the transcripts), so I missed all the romance and "true-love-we're-soulmates" stuff that happened in previous seasons. I know about it, but I don't feel it, if you know what I mean. Plus I've got this huge soft spot for Spike, and he's been hurt enough, dammit.